Stop Making Excuses
If you really understand somebody's story, it's almost impossible on some level to not forgive them. However, that does not mean we have to excuse their shitty behaviour. For there to be any true healing for either side we have to hold the people in our lives accountable for their actions.
This does not mean we go at them from a place of “I’m better than you” sitting up on our high horse above them. It is possible to hold them accountable in a loving manner. One that does not take from our mental well-being in the process.
Today on the Karen Kenney Show, we are talking about how it is not loving to allow the people in our lives to continue on in their bad behavior. Part of loving them sometimes means we have to be upfront and keep them accountable by calling them out. The uncomfortable parts are difficult but skipping over them is not going to do anyone any good.
What You Will Learn On This Episode:
Storytelling (7:57)
Spiritually Mature (18:30)
Stop Making Excuses (34:11)
Sometimes We Want A Pass (39:45)
The Crack Is Where The Light Gets In (40:52)
Fearless Moral Inventory (46:00)
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Karen Kenney is a writer, speaker, and the founder of Fearless Flow Mentoring.
She’s a certified Spiritual Mentor, has been a student & guide of A Course in Miracles for 26+ years and a longtime student of Passage Meditation. She’s also a Gateless Writing Teacher and has been a yoga teacher since 2001.
KK grew up in Lawrence & Boston, MA and is known for her storytelling, her sense of humor and her “down-to-earth” approach to spirituality. Her signature mentoring programs: Your Story to Your Glory™ & Fearless Flow™ help people let go of their old stories of suffering and victimization, so they can write a new kick-ass story from a place of inner power, forgiveness, freedom and Spirit.
A sought-after expert and Spiritual Thought Leader for Live Events, Podcasts, Coaching Programs and Shows, Karen speaks on stages across the country and leads Transformational Retreats in the New England area and at the Omega Institute in NY.
KK is the host of The Karen Kenney Show Podcastandis currently at work on her memoir.
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